The Brief: a short, no-BS audio course that helps your partner finally understand the mental load - and how to actually support you in the ways that matteR
Explaining the mental load shouldn’t be part of the mental load
You just want him to ‘get it’ without another
I’ve spent over 20 years teaching couples how to create stronger, more connected partnerships. I’ve written books, spoken on stages, and studied the research behind what keeps love alive.
But nothing taught me more than trying to explain this to my own husband.
We were deep in the chaos of raising young kids.
He was traveling constantly for work.
I was holding everything else - the meals, the calendars, the emotions, the never-ending mental to-do list.
Let's be real: Most men aren’t losing sleep over the mental load. But you are.
Truthfully? This stuff can make or break a relationship.
- AB, Brief User
Lesson 9 and 10 hit hard—especially the idea that we’re not being criticized, we’re being invited to show up. Every guy should hear this. I’m already recommending it to friends and family.”
The Brief was incredible. It gave me practical tools, real scripts, and a totally different perspective on what our partners are really asking for.
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When I finally brought it up? He shut down. Got defensive.
And I was tired of having to be the one to explain.
So I changed how I talked about it. I broke it down in a way that made sense to him.
And something clicked.
- He started seeing it.
- He started stepping in.
- And it changed everything for us.
And we’d spiral into the same frustrating conversations again and again.
So you don’t have to keep carrying this - or explaining it - on your own.
That’s why I created The Brief
It’s a simple, straight-talking audio course that helps your partner finally understand what you’ve been trying to say.
And more importantly - what to do next.
If any of this hits a nerve, The Brief was made for you (and him).
Wondering if he even sees how much you’re carrying
Feeling like you’re “nagging” just to keep life running
Doing everything yourself while he waits to be told what to do
Getting met with defensiveness when you finally bring it up
Holding all the invisible tasks - and then explaining them too
Are you sick of feeling like you have to spell out every little thing - and still somehow end up the bad guy?
Feeling like it’s easier to just do it yourself (again)
Let’s name what’s really driving the tension:
“Okay… but will he actually listen to this?”
You don’t need another thing to manage.
You need something that actually works - without you having to nag, beg, or break down.
The Brief is short, direct, and easy to digest. No therapy required.
How He Can Go From “I Don’t Get It” to “I’ve Got You”
This isn’t a one-time fix. It’s about creating a new normal - one where you feel seen, supported, and like you’re on the same team again.
It’s all audio. He can listen while driving, walking, or pretending to be busy in the garage.
Plug in & Press Play
He’ll finally understand what the mental load is and why it’s been affecting everything
See What You’ve Been Carrying
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No more “Just tell me what you need.” He’ll hear clear, doable ways to step in without being asked.
Learn What to Actually Do
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So he doesn’t freeze up or say the wrong thing - even in hard conversations.
Get the Right Words
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Create your new normal - one where you feel seen, supported, and like you’re on the same team again.
Lock It In For Life
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I created The Brief because I know how exhausting it is to carry so much of the mental load - and how hard it can be to explain it in a way that actually lands.
I’ve been married for 17 years to a man who works in construction and is on the road most weeks.
We’ve had our share of messy moments, miscommunications, and the same argument on repeat. What changed everything was learning how to talk about the mental load in a way that worked - so he could truly see it, and show up for me in the ways that mattered.
Hey, I’m Dr. Morgan Cutlip. I’ve got a PhD in Psychology, but more importantly, I’ve spent the last 20+ years helping couples create stronger, more connected relationships - and living the work at home myself.
Meet the Expert Behind The Brief
Real Relationships. Real Results.
Imagine how you will feel when your partner finally gets it - and starts showing up in a way that actually helps.
You’re not asking him to become someone he’s not.
You just want to feel seen, supported, and like you're in this together.
That’s exactly what starts to shift when couples get the right tools - and use them.
This course distills all of that.
It’s the straight-talking, simplified version of what I’ve learned from research, thousands of couples, and my own marriage.
You don’t have to keep carrying it all. I’m here to help make the shift easier - for both of you.
He’s a good guy - but often feels like he’s “getting it wrong” in your relationship
Is The Brief for him?
the big question
He wants to do better, but still isn’t totally sure what the mental load even is
He’d be open to learning… if it didn’t involve hours of therapy or an 800-page book
He truly cares - and you just want things to feel easier, lighter, and more connected
He responds better to straight talk (not lectures) and needs tools he can actually use
He’s looking for a magic fix with zero effort
He doesn’t actually care how things are affecting you
He thinks relationships should just “work” without effort or learning anything new
If you’re nodding along, The Brief might be the best gift you ever give your relationship.
(Just present it as an invitation - not a fix-it project)
Let’s make things easier - starting today
Here’s what happens when your partner finally gets it - and starts showing up in a way that actually helps.
Including: “What She Actually Needs From You,” “Why You See Things Differently,” and “The Power of Feeling Seen”
Plug in & Press Play
That help him understand what’s really going on - and what to do differently (without needing a therapist or an 800-page book)
Real insights, practical tools
Dr. Morgan Cutlip has helped thousands of couples and has lived this herself
Taught by a Ph.D. in Psychology
He can listen privately, at his own pace, whenever he’s ready
On-the-go Lifetome access
(Regular price $97 - this is the best time to send it)
Just $37 for a limited time
Send him The Brief today - and take the first step toward being seen, heard, and supported in your relationship.
Questions? Let’s clear them up.
It includes 11 short audio lessons - most under 10 minutes - perfect for a drive, workout, or walk around the block.
As soon as you purchase, they’ll get access to the full podcast-style course. They can stream it or download it to listen offline, anytime.
Nope. It’s not a lecture or a guilt trip. It’s an invitation to understand things in a way that actually lands - without blame, shame, or finger-pointing.
That’s the beauty of The Brief. It’s not therapy. It’s short, simple, and straight to the point. Just send it with a message like: “This explains things better than I ever could. Would you give it a listen?”
Perfect! The Brief is designed to complement it - and speak directly to him in a way that the book can’t.
Absolutely. He can choose when, where, and how to engage with it.
That’s exactly why this works. It’s designed to be quick to listen to and even quicker to apply. Tiny shifts, big difference.
Even better. This isn’t just for crisis mode - it’s for any couple who wants to understand each other better and feel more connected.
Not at all. In fact, it’s one of the most supportive things you can do for your relationship. This isn’t about “fixing him.” It’s about helping him see you.
Send it as a gift, not a demand. Something like:
“This totally put words to what I’ve been feeling. I’d love for you to hear it too.” works like magic.